The following statement that came in from one of my clients tonight whose husband downloaded and is either reading or listening to "Real Love in Parenting.": 

Her little 6-year-old daughter ran up to her and said, "Mommy, Daddy is listening to a 'song' on his computer about being a better Daddy.....and I'm so happy 'cuz  it's working!"

My marriage was almost over, and our kids were acting out more and more. But then I talked to Greg, and we decided to really dive in and do it. We did everything Greg said to do. Everything. And now our marriage is stronger, and our teenage girl is almost unrecognizable. She’s happy and cooperative and kind to her brother. It’s like a miracle.

So thanks Greg, for your time and for all the information we found on the website.

My oldest daughter was 16 when I first stumbled across Real Love. As with every other thing I had ever started learning and thought I knew best about, I shoved it down her throat. Understandably she didn't like that and became pretty resistant. I kept learning and kept telling the truth about myself and kept loving her the best I could.

At times I was so conscious of the gap between what I could see she needed and what I knew I could offer her that it near broke my heart. I was frequently tortured seeing how much I wanted to love her in the way she needed and yet knowing I was just too emotionally immature myself to do so. I wept in many people's arms over this and am grateful for their patiently loving me through my own pain.

I did my best before my daughter left home. Was my best good enough? It doesn't matter. It was the best I had. There were — and are still — others who would willingly step in and give my daughter what she needed directly. What a gift to know this.

She's 20 years old now and coming up to the end of her second year at university. She calls me very frequently; at the moment it's almost every day. Last night she called and said she was calling to "refuel" as so many people around her are in pain and she's been helping them as much as she could. She said she needed to "top up" herself.

If you'd have asked me a few years or even months ago whether my oldest daughter and I could have had this kind of relationship I would have said no way. Real Love really does work miracles.

I watched your video clip of Real Love for parenting , and within the first 40 seconds I recognized that this was exactly my life... this was my daughter.

I downloaded the book and read it and the very next day (today) I put it into practice . The result was instant. 

Today, for the first time I loved my daughter unconditionally and what I received back was beyond my expectations. 

Today I may have just saved my daughter’s life. From anger to self harm then on to suicide threats to actual attempts, today I saw something in her I hadn’t seen before. Acceptance....acceptance to believe I loved her no matter what. No resistance and no anger. 

My journey I know is long, but today I took my very first step.

Wow - what a powerful message I got from your book "Stress Free Parenting". I was at my lowest point not knowing why my 3-year-old girl behaves so badly and rebellious. Reading this opened my eyes as to what the problem is and how to fix it and it all makes so much sense now. I wish I had known this sooner but will definitely recommend this for any person, especially if you have kids. What a Blessing this been to me!!

I am so excited because I got to treat the real problem not only the symptom. Tried it already yesterday and what a difference in my mood towards my kids already.  I am so grateful for the amazing truth that will set my situation FREE.

I must say that I can also feel the emotional freedom/stability that comes with stepping up in my parenting. Not giving in to fear.

I know that listening to your parenting training filled me with extra courage, strength and faith that I've been able to draw on. I now have a testimony of its power!!

For all my childhood and adult life, there was tension between my parents and me. But then I learned the principles found in the Ridiculously Effective Parenting Training, and wow! to my surprise, they worked. I feel so free, and I have a fun relationship with my parents that I never imagined possible.

This book was lent to me back in 2009. Changed the course of my life, for the happier. Quote from my 12 year old "thank you for saving my family".

We continue to learn better how to raise happy and responsible children with the Real Love website.

Real Love changed not only my life, but the lives of both my children. I love being a part of this community!

Real Love has affected my life in so many ways. My eldest son moved halfway across the country and refused my calls. With Greg's advice I left simple voice messages. I told him jokes. I wrote him newsy letters telling him how life was going at home. At one point C. told me not to communicate with him and that he would initiate further contact. I respectfully disagreed telling him that he was my son, I would always love him and he could always rip up my letters without reading them. It took time, but thanks to Real Love we are closer than ever. He has a RL coach and is happier than I've ever seen him. Thank you Real Love, thank you Greg.

“Greg Baer is the most unconditionally loving man on the face of the planet. Every parent needs to hear what he has to say.”