March 10, 2022

Throughout the Parenting Training, we have learned that first, we love our children. Then we love and teach them with words. We listen carefully to them. (watch “Listen to the Whispers”) If all that fails, we teach them with the use of consequences, sometimes escalating them until we get the attention of the child and they

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March 3, 2022

A man called me to say that his daughter, Selene, had been somewhat withdrawn for several months. “It’s not like we never see her,” Dad said, “but she’s alone in her room more. She doesn’t play with her younger brother and sister as much as she used to. She doesn’t talk to me or her

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March 1, 2022

Mom completed the Parenting Training and began to love and teach her children. She had days where her children responded beautifully. She also had days where cooperation seemed to disappear, leaving them all confused and frustrated.Increasing Consequences When Teaching Isn’t EnoughAfter loving and teaching with words, Mom began to use consequences, as described in the

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December 2, 2021

Why We Don’t Do the Right ThingA few years ago I had my arthritic right hip replaced, and within days of the surgery, I began a program of physical rehabilitation designed to build up the muscles around the hip joint.  Of necessity, this therapy is repetitive and painful. At one point the therapist pointed out that

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November 29, 2021

When we stop trying to make other people like us, it’s like being freed from prison. As parents, we can teach our children to do this.  Timestamps: 00:00 Mother notices that daughter is skipping meals and talks to her about her need for approval.  02:45 Teen boys aren’t unconditionally interested in a girl’s happiness.  05:16 Parents need to ask

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