Real Love® is the Oil

March 4, 2021

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The Need for a Supply of Real Love

As I was watching a movie involving the Vietnam War, I noticed that all the infantry soldiers had a small plastic squeeze bottle fastened to their helmets. I’d probably seen it in other films, but this was the first time I noticed it.

I made some personal guesses about what the bottle was for, but then I looked it up on the Internet. The squeeze bottle contained a lubricant for the moving parts in their rifles, to keep them from jamming up, a common phenomenon in the muddy conditions of the jungle.

Considering that the average pack of a U.S. infantryman in Vietnam weighed 85 pounds, with who-knows-how-many-dozen individual items, it’s instructive to consider that rifle lubricant was the one item—other than the rifle itself—kept in a place most accessible to the soldier.

No matter how well-supplied a soldier was, his ability to fight was immediately crippled if his rifle wasn’t lubricated. The oil made everything else go.

And so it is with Real Love. Having a sufficient supply readily available makes everything else you do—personally, in relationships, as parents, at work—more effective and more fulfilling.

The absence of it can cause every other effort in your life to fail.

Keep your squeeze bottle full and close at hand. You won’t be sorry you did that.

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About the author

I am the founder of The Real Love® Company, Inc, a non-profit organization. Following the sale of my successful ophthalmology practice I have dedicated the past 25 years to teaching people a remarkable process that replaces all of life's "crazy" with peace, confidence and meaning in various aspects of their personal lives, including parenting, marriages, the workplace and more.

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