October 21, 2021

Controlling vs Teaching IndependenceDeb is the mother of two boys, ages seven and ten. She read the Real Love in Parenting book. She has talked to me about parenting on many occasions. But then I talked to her husband and learned how she behaves with her sons.   She lays out their clothes for school the night

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October 18, 2021

A lack of loving connection has grave effects on a child’s character and causes life-long behavioral problems. We can’t afford to destroy our children in this way.Timestamps: 00:16 Report from W.H.O. in 1952 about homeless children describes problem behaviors we see today. 02:16 Conclusion: These troubled children suffered from a lack of intimate attachments, usually with parents. 04:13

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October 14, 2021

Parents Love, Protect, and CorrectImagine that you’re lost in the jungle. You can hear the growls and cries of animals that spell certain injury or death for you, and you are frightened.   A lamb wanders from a thicket and into your arms, where he sits in your lap and licks your face. Certainly this is a pleasant experience,

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October 11, 2021

If you are the parent of a child, you can’t give that job up to anybody: not the Internet, peers, phones, or grandparents. Your children need you to do it.Timestamps: 00:00 Diana, once an angry mother, learns to love and teach her children. 01:12 The Grandmother feels threatened and tries to take over mothering the children. 05:32

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October 7, 2021

Rarely if ever have I followed a video answer on this site with a written blog with the same content. This is one such instance. The subject is that important.   Today I read an article in the Wall Street Journal by one of the staff writers specializing in children’s use of technology. I am NOT criticizing

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