November 8, 2021

We can protect our children from emotional earthquakes by learning to love and teach, putting reinforcing steel and concrete into the foundations, walls, and ceilings of their lives.  Timestamps:  00:00 Collapsed buildings from earthquake due to ignoring rules and recommendations.  04:14 We need to recognize that we caused most of the pain in our children’s lives.  05:18 Protect them

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November 4, 2021

We Need to Become Like Little ChildrenWatch young children who are relatively uninhibited, which means that their true nature hasn’t yet been buried under a mountain of irritation, fear, controlling, and more from parents and others.  Without constraint they freely explore the world, and as they make their discoveries, they tend to freely give you whatever

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November 1, 2021

Earning approval is a lot of work, and gradually and stealthily it sucks away the self-worth of the buyer. Help your child recognize this so they can stop. Timestamps:  00:38 Why parents don’t have the courage to loveandteach: 1)World runs on approval, not truth. 01:46 2) Change makes you isolated for a while.  01:58 3) Children are resistant  02:36 Example

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October 28, 2021

Is Divorce the Cause of Problems in Children?Many couples stay together “for the sake of the children.” They suffer through horrible marriages for years, even decades, and, in many cases, as soon as their children are out of the house, they separate.  Did they actually do their children a favor by staying together, or would it

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October 25, 2021

We cannot afford to comfort ourselves with denial and be blind to the truth. The price is just too high.  We have to look at them, see them, and recognize their obvious demonstrations of pain.  We have to diligently look for how often we are unloving and contribute to their pain.  Only with that kind of

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